{"id":6641,"date":"2020-09-03T12:01:55","date_gmt":"2020-09-03T10:01:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/m-stil.covermagazin.com\/?p=6641"},"modified":"2020-09-03T21:45:52","modified_gmt":"2020-09-03T19:45:52","slug":"najcesca-laz-zena-nisam-ljuta-na-tebe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/m-stil.covermagazin.com\/?p=6641","title":{"rendered":"Naj\u010de\u0161\u0107a la\u017e \u017eena: Nisam ljuta na tebe"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/m-stil.covermagazin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/01\/Naj\u010de\u0161\u0107a-la\u017e-\u017eena.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-34738\" src=\"https:\/\/m-stil.covermagazin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/01\/Naj\u010de\u0161\u0107a-la\u017e-\u017eena.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h3>Naj\u010de\u0161\u0107a la\u017e \u017eena: Nisam ljuta na tebe<\/h3>\n<p>Kada znate da ste ne\u0161to lo\u0161e ili pogre\u0161no napravili, a ona vam ka\u017ee: \u201eNisam ljuta\u201d, vjerojatno jeste. Ne\u0107ete se ba\u0161 tako lako izvu\u0107i iz situacije u koju ste se uvukli.<\/p>\n<p>Ova la\u017e je jedna od naj\u010de\u0161\u0107ih u vezama. Nju \u010desto \u017eene koriste kako bi se obranile od navale osje\u0107aja ili dok ne smisle kako \u017eele reagirati. Npr. ako ste zaboravili njen ro\u0111endan, nazvali ste je imenom biv\u0161e ili ste zaboravili na dogovor, vjerojatno \u0107e u prvi trenutak reagirati kao da se ne ljuti na vas. Ali vjerojatno se ljuti.<\/p>\n<p>No, umjesto da prizna da je i koliko je povrije\u0111ena reagirat \u0107e na ovaj na\u010din. Izgledat \u0107e vam kao da je nije briga, a ustvari joj je jako stalo.<\/p>\n<p>Mo\u017eda ne \u017eeli izgledati \u017eiv\u010dano ili biti zlo\u010desta, no vjerojatno niste ni\u0161ta rije\u0161ili s tim \u0161to je rekla da se ne ljuti na vas.<\/p>\n<p>Ovu la\u017e je lako otkriti jer \u017eene te\u0161ko potpuno prikrivaju svoju nervozu. Ako samo malo bolje pogledate shvatit \u0107ete da je ljuta, lako se vide <a href=\"https:\/\/covermagazin.com\/?p=696\">znakovi da netko la\u017ee<\/a>,\u00a0vjerojatno koluta o\u010dima, ne nastavlja razgovor nego se bavi ne\u010dim drugim, skre\u0107e temu&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Iako vam se \u010dini jednostavnije pustiti je u takvom stanju mo\u017eda to nije najbolja opcija. Sada znate u \u010demu je problem i mo\u017eete ga rije\u0161iti ili mo\u017eete objasniti za\u0161to ste ne\u0161to napravili. Ako to ne napravite sada poslije se ne\u0107ete sje\u0107ati detalja ili \u0107ete ve\u0107 imati dva problema. Vrlo je vjerojatno da \u0107e vas zasko\u010diti kada to najmanje o\u010dekujete, u trenutku potpunog mira i opu\u0161tenosti u vezi.<\/p>\n<p>Stoga kada vam ka\u017ee da nije ljuta ponovno se ispri\u010dajte i neupitani objasnite. Tako \u0107ete znati da ste problem stvarno rije\u0161ili.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kada znate da ste ne\u0161to lo\u0161e ili pogre\u0161no napravili, a ona vam ka\u017ee: \u201eNisam ljuta\u201d, vjerojatno jeste. Ne\u0107ete se ba\u0161 tako lako izvu\u0107i iz situacije u koju ste se uvukli.<br \/>\nOva la\u017e je jedna od naj\u010de\u0161\u0107ih u vezama&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,21],"tags":[50],"class_list":["post-6641","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-featured","category-lj","tag-veze"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/m-stil.covermagazin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6641","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/m-stil.covermagazin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/m-stil.covermagazin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/m-stil.covermagazin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/m-stil.covermagazin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6641"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"https:\/\/m-stil.covermagazin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6641\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":34739,"href":"https:\/\/m-stil.covermagazin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6641\/revisions\/34739"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/m-stil.covermagazin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6641"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/m-stil.covermagazin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6641"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/m-stil.covermagazin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6641"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}